Rent' production will help teach tolerance

Aparent has questioned the appropriateness of Upper Freehold Regional School District's (UFRSD) Allentown High School presentation of "Rent."

The story of impoverished, ethnically diverse artists and musicians struggling in New York City is a Tony award, Pulitzer/Drama award and New York Drama Critics' Circle awardwinning Broadway musical. While no doubt controversial, the show tackles important topics such as AIDS, homosexuality and drug abuse.

Why are some making an issue of these things? Are these considered different than racial hatred and religious intolerance? Would this parent object to her daughter participating in a play about those topics?

Last year, Millstone Township Middle School performed "Fiddler on the Roof," a play about a father's attempt to maintain religious traditions amid persecution and revolution. A few years ago, "Grease" was performed in the Middle School, a play about teen rebellion, class conflict, gang violence and conservatism in America.

I don't recall any parent protesting their child's involvement with those subject matters. And what makes this parent think that the quality of work in this play would be inferior or the students are not proud to present their work?

This is America. Isn't it ironic we shun sex, but support violence? This is a typical reaction of shock and indignation when taboo topics like sexuality are brought up, but yet it's OK to view/play movies and video games that mutilate and kill.

The "moral police" never seem to speak about these things. The rating system of the Motion Picture Association of America is voluntary and an R-rated movie means restricted, no one under 17 and under is permitted. This allows for parental discretion. No one should try to impose his or her morals on others. The rights of the UFRSD students should not be affected by one parent's opinion.

Everyday life cannot be sheltered from maturing teens. Thoughtless, reckless behavior can be at the forefront of teenage life, but it seems that some parents would rather shelter their child than encourage growth, awareness, tolerance and maturity. As we grow, the Disney and Dr. Seuss innocence fades and we must be able to approach situations with thoughtful concern.

There are risks in life and theater is no different. If you are unable to accept the challenge, then don't participate or attend the performance. I respect a parent's right to deny her child's participation, just as she should respect another individual's right to participate. In our free society, it is our right to express our opinion. I am proud that my ninth grader will audition, and while I will not take my fourth-grader to see the performance, I look forward to attending.

These are personal choices that are made within the family and I do not discourage the involvement of others. I encourage the UFRSD Board of Education and our community to stand up and support the play. I applaud the courage of all involved with this production. They are open to the risk and choose understanding, not closed mindedness.

Hopefully, what "happens" when these students perform "Rent" this spring — our community will learn about tolerance and the uncertainty of life from a talented and proud group of Allentown High School students.
Lisa Albarella
Millstone